Our expert says:
Sad that he's bitter about YOU having |wasted" some of his life, and doesn't see the time he chose to spend drinking and doing nothing, as wasted --- or that he feels that not having had a party for those yers, was a waste. Sounds awfully immature. Of course you shouldn't feel guilty --- HE took the main decisions that wasted a part of his life, and spending too long growling abou that will only waste more of it. I see no reason to suppose that he was somehow ordained to be the one you married, and several good reasons to think otherwise. He should see a shrink in his own right, to sort out the messes he has made and prepare himself to move on ; you should maybe see a shrink or counsellor to deal with your own concerns, and also to move on, and in a different direction to his.
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