Our expert says:
When he is going through real problems in his life, rather than worrying about his withdrawing from being supportive and sustaining towards you, how supportive and encouraging are you towards him at those times ? Is he actually, as you imply, trying to hurt you, or are you allowing yourself to feel hurt by maybe expecting more from him than he is able to provide while trying to handle his own troubles ?
Clearly you have also been facing difficulties with the loss of a family member. Are there other family members or friends ou can turn to for support and someone to chat to ? It usually takes us months to get through a significant bereavement, and not going out is not disaster ; rather spend time with friends and alone, until you feel more sociable again
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