Our expert says:
Its normal, though obviously upstting. If he stopped having sex with you 14 years ago, he must have made himself sexually frustrated, and this as an outlet is surely preferable to direct infidelity, though hurtful for you. Its sad that at the time help wasn't obtained through the Cancer Association and its related supports for Breast Cancer, to have someone with similar experiences, perhaps also her husband, come to talk with both of you and enable him to recognize that you're exactly as much of a woman as ever you were. It may be a bit late to try this, but still possible and potentially worthwhile.
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