Our expert says:
If your father really is that mean, ungrateful and stupid, he is really not much of a loss, though of course this may feel very different to you at first. He has failed to bother to provide for himself and his family, and has depended on your kindness and generosity for a long time. who you choose to form a relationship with, or sleep with it utterly NON of his business, and its outrageous that he feels entitled to intefere, let alone to do so, so rudely.
And yes, of course, your sisters are adults with every chancwe and duty to provide for themselves rather than sponge on you. They should be ashamed for having stayed so long and without thanking you and recopgnizing how much they owe you.
Ignore his mean and cruel words, but accept his only sensible suggestion - that you not waste your tgime contacting him again. Leave him to himself. Of course it's nonsense that you're not worthy of being called his daughter ( who on earth does he imagine he is ? ) - the truth is, he's not worthy of being called your father. What does he know about love ?
The house is YOURS, legally and morally, and maybe you even over-paid him for it. He has no say whatever in what you choose to do with it or who you choose to invite to live in it.
Yes, what he said can't be unsaid, but it doesn't need to be unsaid - he is invalid, and his comments must not be allowed to hurt - they're the rude noises made by a mean, ugly and cruel old man trying to hurt you by saying untrue but hurtful things.
You really have nothing to lose by excluding such an unpleasant person from your lfie. A counsellor can help you to move on and leave him behind in your dust.
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