Our expert says:
Weed and alcohol are complicating things, but Dude's probably right that the main issue here is the deception, and the fact that he felt it necessary to deceive you --- and that he is indeed to some extent placing you at added risk, even without you knowing about it earlier. When the dagga and/or the alcohol is talking, what gets said may be sincere or not, it's just harder than usual to tell. Any chance of talking him into joining you in marriage counselling ?
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