Our expert says:
He does not need the counselling - you do. He came clean and that is something you must appreciate. Unless he expressed the desire to go back to those practices, you have to get your mind made up. If he gave you no reason in the past, why do you worry now? You mentioned abuse - there are a large number of people out there who are adult survivors of child sexual abuse. Perhaps he was and it was his way of dealing with it by sharing the burden with you. Do not "test" him, talk to him and then accept he good will.
DEidre - SASHA
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