Our expert says:
Sounds like you may have made useful progress this year. I hope you are seeing a realistic, CBT-style therapist to help you work through all this realistically and effectively. Maybe the problem with Mr Nice Guy is that you have developed the habit of feeling that you don't deserve things to be as good as this, and that he's maybe too good for you ? Though living together fter just a month sounds desperate, needy and over-hasty.
And to find him appearing to be hopelessly in love with you is a turn-off ? Why ? Aren't you worthy of such love ? If you are really finding it so hard to accept and enjoy such love --- don't you both need and deserve to see a therapist to get this sort of thing straightened out ?
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