Our expert says:
He abused you. He is insecure, and excessively jealous, and spies on you. He wants to own and control you, not to have an adult relationship with you. What is there to love about all that ? At least insist that he join you in seeing a relationship counsellor ( eg through FAMSA ). But he sounds more like a candidate for getting a restraining order from a court, and after carefully consulting with POWA, planning a safe departure. Don't stay within an abusive relationship because he threatens to harm himself, and get help to ensure that he is not allowed to harm you
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