Posted by: B | 2009/01/19

How to orgasm


Please can somebody give me advise on how to try and have an orgasm with penetration. I need details. I know that a lot of women don' t orgasm with penetration but I think that if they are with the right partner who has the patience they might get it right. I just want to see if I can but I don' t know how to go about it. My b/f has been very patient with me and he has had several girlfriends and a wife before me but he is my first b/f and my one and only lover. I only lost my virginity just before my 29th birthday so I am still very green when it comes to sex but I would like to have an exciting sex life but I think I need to teach myself how to have an orgasm with penetration. I don' t have a problem having a clit orgasm but I desperately want one with penetration - it is really getting me down now. Please can anybody help me with details of how to go about it.


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most women only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation and not vaginal. vaginal orgasms usually occur through stimulation of the g-spot which is located on the anterior wall of the vagina, usually 4cm inwards. it can be stimulated through inserting a finger which moves in a come-to-me motion. please see for more info

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Posted by: Mr G | 2009/01/20

Have you gotten advice so far or details that help you? I have a few options/suggestions that you can try to have a penetrative orgasm, but it will take some time to type it out. That is why I' m asking up front if you have already gotten yoru answer or not yet?

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Posted by: Good vibrations | 2009/01/19

Have you tried a vibrator. I have never had an orgasm with a man, although I kind of " peak" . With a vibrator I can orgasm. Perhaps it would help you. Do not be shy. It is very worth it. I think everyone should have one.

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Posted by: ALR | 2009/01/19

I dont know how to orgasm at all...

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