Our expert says:
So she is being persistently foolish. It's her life, and as an adult she is entitled to be foolish. I'm not sure why you feel this is somehow your responsibility ? YOu have no need to welcome her into your home, and certainly no need to even allow through the door her feeble toy boy. Don't allow him near your kids - that is your pivilege.
Neither you nor her parents have any duty to like the unlikeable chap and encourage her in her foolishness. Juust tell her calmly that everyone who cares about her is concerned that this guy is an extremely bad idea and will cause her great grief ; and that none of you want to see him at any time, but will try to support her after she leaves him or he leaves her
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