Our expert says:
This is a serious problem as your sexual needs and desires are equally important as his. Sit him down and explain that you are unable to enjoy sex as a result of this and that he has to make a concerted effort to make love making pleasurable for you both. Even if he comes first, there is nothing stopping him from starting to pleasure you thereafter, and it's possible that the second time around it might take longer for him to ejaculate. It may even be possible that he is experiencing premature ejaculation in which case this should be addressed and attended to by a sexologist or urologist. If he is not willing to listen to you or if your'lls methods fail, it would be worthwhile to consult with a couples therapist who can advice you on how to make sex enjoyable for you both.
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