Our expert says:
Very nice to ehar from you again, Lonestar. Separation and reflection is often functional and useful. Congratulations on refusing the idea of OD. Its not clear from your message whether the attempts to save the marriage (a) involved expert help from a marriage counsellor, or (b) whether you were both sincerely working towards this aim, or the effort was one-sided. Marriage counselling would be a good idea, within which a plan like some separation and reflection could be hatched and adopted jointly. Otherwise, what option nis there but to gently tell him what you want, at a time as far as possible removed from a crisis or argument
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