Our expert says:
Knowing what you, yourself, are, and staying true to it, has nothing at all to do with what other people think or whether they like you.
I'm sceptical about making friends online, just because you never actually know who the other person is, until it might be rather too late.
I don't understand why friends or acquaintances at your first place of work would have turned against you, let alone started telling unpleasant lies about you - people are usually too lazy to go to that amount of trouble without a good reason for doing so !
Is it that others don't LIKE you, but don'tm mind you, or that they DISLIKE you ?
Apart from getting your GP to put you on proper iron meds to relieve your anemia and give you more energy, maybe you've just had rather bad luck in the people you've met up with and hoped they'd be more than they were actually capable of ?
You've missed nothing in not getting involved with the utterly shallow Party and Clubby folks - they're monumentally boring anyway.
Maybe get more involved with activities that interest you ( ? maybe animal welfare, charities, whatever ) and see if you meet people in doing such good works, that are more the sort of folks you'd like
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