Our expert says:
Sad that "comforting" someone so often seems to become dangerous to the comforter's existing relationship. OK< he feels bad about breaking the other woman's heart 24 years ago --- does he think that breaking your heart now, will make things right ? Is it up to you to "win his love back" or his task to bring it back where it belongs ? COuld you talk him into joining you in marriage counselling, to explore these issues and options more sensibly ?
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