Our expert says:
Its understandable, perhaps, but always unjustifiable and unwise, for parents to involve their children within their quarrels. Of course you grew up with an expectastion that this is how marriage is. And one tends to get caught into relationships later in life which involve similar people and similar outcomes --- UNLESS one decides to change this set of expectations. This is where personal cousnelling, especially of the CBT format, can help a lot, to examine, test and revise the expectations you grw up with. It can work on issues like trust, and help you to trust realistically, and avoid unhelpful and inaccurate negative thoughts
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