Our expert says:
Sounds, to some degree, like an anniversary reaction ; we can to a remarkable extent, sag in mood on the anniversaries orf especially unpleasant events. But try not to expend too much energy chasing sterile questions. Why did he do it ? Probably unanswerable, even to him. It wasn't your fault. Working with a counsellor could help you to work through these issues and set yourself free from these aspects of the past, making you more ready to move forwards. If you are sure you two should continue as a pair, then he ought to join you in marriage counselling. If he doesn't want to do that, in part to make up for the needless hurt he caused you, then that counts strongly against ideas of continuing a relationship with someone so uncaring. Then he's not genuinelyy trying to kove on or to make it up to you. But then individual counselling for you yourself would still pay dividends.
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