Our expert says:
SO, if I understand what you're saying, the problem lies not between the pair of you, but with both of you feeling shy about expressing your affection in front of others ? Does that need to be done ? If you know that you both feel so shy in front of others, you don't need to fear his lack of display in front of others meaning that he loves you the less --- any more than your fail;ure to display this publically means anything the less about your own love for him. I'm sure you don't disappoint him, as neither of you probably expect from the other behaviour you can't manage yourselves.
If sounds as though you both have a degree of social anxiety disorder, excessive shyness, and this responds really well to treatment, especially with CBT ( Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy ) and perhaps some medications. A good local shrink should be able to advise on this, and you could, working with the right expert advice, transform the situation for both of you.
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