Our expert says:
I agree with kernel --- if he blows a fuse, he can sit in the dark till you get home ---how often does that happen. I'm not familiar with majuba beans, but I can see the temptation of that technique. Maybe you can just cheerfully tell him that your doctor has started you on a new and powerful medicine for "female problems" ( mysteriously and worrying for most men !) and that you're to put the medicine in your milk and drink a prescribed amount of it each day. So you're sorry, you can't invite him for a cup of coffee with your own milk, or he might start growing breasts.
But the long-term solution, surely, is to seek somewhere else to live. And 5550429 has the best answer of all.
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