Our expert says:
Hmm, Lolo. Its easy to promise, bnut not easy to do, not so ? Does she have any ideas about how you copuld find out for her ? I wonder why her mom is so secretive about this, as surely she should realize that it is entirely fair for her children to ask such a question and to expect a truthful answer. There ae, surely, "issues" involved. Is it possible to even guess what they are ? What about other family members ? Does the mom have sisters or brothers who might be prepared to talk about whatever happened --- and at least to help you both understand why the mother considers this so sensitive, if not to help to reveal the truth ?
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