Our expert says:
Dear Stranded Wife,
It is not that uncommon for women after multiple child births to lose some tone in their vaginal barrel. There are Kegal exercises a women can do to tone the vagina. You also can try Foo Wong (chinese) balls that a women places inside her vaginal barrel while doing the kegal exercises which are both pleasureable and can assist with toning.
It may also be helpful for you and your husband to try various sexual positions as well to add some spice and variety to your sex lives and to explore different types of pleasure and sensation for you both.
It is important that you and your husband continue to communicate about your seual needs and relationship.
Seeing a sex therapist to explore this in more detail may also be helpful.
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