Our expert says:
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi Intimidated, a warm welcome to our forum and thanks for your post.
Forget about formulating a menu for now - there's no need to do ANYTHING! Don't be a top or bottom (in fact, forget about these terms), don't be ‘into’ anything and simply explore what you're comfortable (or uncomfortable) with. You don't need to please or satisfy anyone and you don't have to prove anything to anyone. You're a unique person and a unique sexual being, not merely a 'top' or a 'bottom'. You're also an emotional being and a moral being. Take all the time you may possibly need to explore yourself sexually and emotionally. Insist on safer sex (and make sure you're fully clued up on this!) and avoid recreational drugs. Don't try to adapt to anyone or to any circumstance you're not comfortable with or that doesn't make complete sense to you - sexually, emotionally and morally. Take your time - don't let anyone rush you. Explore at your own pace and feel free to back off when you need to or want to.
Forget about the menu for now. Just be yourself, don't make compromises, be honest and sincere and take care of being taken for a ride.
Please keep posting and if you need to know more about safer sex PLEASE post again.
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