Our expert says:
I agree with Leila.
She has just a few choices - either she decides that he is allowed to cheat whenever he wishes, and then she must stay with him and stop crying about it or even complaining about it p;
or she must decide that his cheating is unacceptable, and as he has done so again despite her already forgiving him once, she will not tolerate this and should consult a lawyer and divorce him, making sure he has to pay full paintenance for the children ;
or if he is sincerely prepared to change, he must join her in proper marriage counselling, eg through FAMSA, and revise his selfish behaviour.
And you can remind her of thesem choices, and emphasize that if she is just going to allow him to continue to cheat, you can't accpt that she does so and still keeps calling you to weep on your shoulder - you are not prepared to support her in accep[ting his infidelity.
It must be frustrating for you, as there is something you could do, in advising her ( as outlined above ) - but if she won't take your advice, there's no real point in her calls.
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