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Posted by: Nads | 2013/02/07

Hoekom ?

Hoekom begeer ''n vrou na ''n ander man ?
Ek in verhouding maar my kerel hang sy ma aan en ek kom glad nie by sy ma nie.
Ons bly saam maar hy doen absoluut niks vir my nie !! niks sit nie eens die asblik uit nie.

Ek weet dus vekeerd van my om so tevoel ek het ''n drukkie by ''n ander man gekry vir my verjaarsdag toe kry ek ''n gevoel wat oor my kom en ek wil meer aandag he van ander mans ek wil goed voel dit was nou wel ''n vriendlike drukkie maar dit net vir my gevoel ek kort dit ek wil dit he, ek weet nie is ek reg om my kerel telos omdat ek so ongelukkig is dat ek iets anders soek of is dit net wat ek nodig het in my verhouding is dit vekeerd om aan sulke goed tedink dat ek ander mans begeer en aandag soek is dit (Verneuk)???

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Posted by: JR | 2013/02/07

Life is too short to be unhappy. If it''s not working and you are not getting what you want out of your relationship, and if it is not ever going to change for the better, you have the power to change it.

We all need love and affection, and I understand where you are coming from and I think what you are feeling is very normal. It''s what you do with those feelings that are more relevant than the feelings themselves. Temptation is everywhere, and people will be charming and attractive and make you feel like a million bucks, where your partner is just like same old same old, and this is how affairs happen. After I gave birth I weighed 55 kilograms and my ex husband used to tell me I was fat, where I had another man telling me he could hardly believe I just had a baby. Now which man do you think was more appealing to me at the time?

But as I said, life is too short. If you are not happy, and your relationship is not going to change for the better, you can either live with it and accept that that is how it is, or you can change it, and find the man that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and that will fulfill your needs.

Good luck

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