Posted by: Noni | 2008/12/08

his mood swings are driving me crazy

i' ve got a huge problem! i have been dating this guy for a couple of months now, the problem is that he has terrible mood swings... when he is in a good mood - we can chat for more than ten times a day but when he is moody - that doesn' t happen - he just withdraws and that just kills me! he is pushing me away and i don' t want to end up having an affair

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Posted by: Noni | 2008/12/09

why didn' t you run " me"  - if you are still married to the guy, clearly means that moody people are possible to live with!

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Posted by: Me | 2008/12/09

Run as fast as you can!! Because he is controlling you and the relationship with his moods, and it will only get husband is like that

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Posted by: C*bershrink | 2008/12/08

Is he actually having genuine mood swings ( which would imply a pr operly diagnosed Bipolar Disorder, which ought to be under proper treatment with mood stabilizing drugs ) ? Or does he just behave differently depending on whether he is in a good or bad mood. IF his behaviour annoys you, well, there are other men out there who probably don' t behave this way. But its never an excuse for having an affair

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