Our expert says:
Maybe he doesn't feel he needs to make up his mind, because he's already getting all he wants from the relationship, without marriage.
It seems to me that too many woman start living with a man, giving him every advantage of marriage --- free sex, housekeeping, cooking, even children, but hoping that he will later on choose to marry them. Men on the other hand are more practical than hopeful, and feel if they have the advantages already, why get married ? Its like having the free loan of a great car --- why start buying it andf spoilt things ?
So he feels confident enough to have affairs, too, and he knows you will forgive him, so why not have an afairwhenever he feels like it ? And then you reveal that he has bad moods, a drinking problem, and threatens to harm you. Why on earth do you want to stay with a man like that ? Rather call a group like POWA which advises abused women on how to safely leave an abuser and make a free life for themselves.
And if he is unfaithful and smelly, you run the risk of catching unpleasant and dangeour diseases from him, too. None of the tabs he might take would cause him to be smelly, and most smelly people wash themselves.
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