Our expert says:
Sounds like, after the horible experience of the rape, you have, in a way, swung to both extremes of the pendulum --- furstly to the wild phase, and now to the other end of the spectrum, being inhibited. You could be greatly helped by a good local counsellor, preferably one of the CBT ( COgnitive-Behaviour Therapy ) variety, to deal wioth the aftermath of the rape, and the curent inhibitions, to be able to feel more in carge of your sexuality, more relaxed, with an enhanced body image, and able to enjoy sex in the way you want to.
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