Our expert says:
Of course this is a vicious and unfair thing for the mother to do, but in her own desperate grief she is probably eager to blame someone else to avoid recognizing her own potential guilt for not having recognized her son's serious problems and not having effectively helped with them.
It's hard to advise about the funeral --- what does she want to do ? If it would provide the mother with an ugly opportunity to be hurtful towards her, this would be a reason to mavoid it ; but if she otherwise does not attend, she may feel the more guilty and bad about not attending. Best discuss this with the counsellor ; and maybe change her phone number so no more vicious SMS or messages can be sent to her.
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