Our expert says:
DO see a good local psychologist or counsellor to deal with your current problems. Don't look for one who expresses a special interest in people who were formerly abused, as too many of those have their own personal agenda, and focus too much on the past and not enough on your current problems. The shrink will be able to gently help you deal with your problems, and the assumptions and habits you have carried over from those unpleasant experiences, let you free yourself to enjoy making love with your husband, and can helpmyou plan how in time, to discuss this with him, and allow him to help you work through this
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