Our expert says:
Why did you choose to shatter your life, and for so little ? The pain you are experiencing is self-inflicted, and at least a reflection that you recognize that you had joiontly created an untenable situation.
Your message is not quite clear --- I gather you and your lover have decided to end the affair, and you're wondering about whether to tell your husband about this ? You may find it useful to see a personal counsellor first, to work through your emotional responses, and plan how best to go about this. You need to work out the best way to resolve this with minimal extra pain for your husband and children ( thus far, it seems you are the only one to feel the pain, but it will inevitably involve them. )
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