Our expert says:
Marriage counselling is urgently needed, as his comments don't make sense. Why would someone choose to create a cruel fiction for years, pretending to love someone he doesn't love, and choosing to have two children by that person ?
It is pathetically selfish and juvenile to decide that he now wants a single life and to irresponsibly "come and go as he pleases". That would be choosing to ignore responsibilties he willingly undertook, and duties to you and the children which he owes to you.
And how can he now, suddenly be so utterly certain that this is the only thing he wants, whatever the consequences to you and the children, and that he will never change his mind ? And to make such a sudden pronouncement while refusing to discuss it, is again selfish, childish, and suggests far more doubt than he will admit to.
He has either been hiding psychopathic irresponsibility for years ( unlikely ) or is now deeply troubled in a way he is not revealing, maybe not even to himself, and in urgent need of assessment and advice from a shrink.
What does his family think of his suddent burst of irresponsibility ?
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