Our expert says:
Sadly, I've heard many similar complaints on this site alone, and it seems as if that request for "time" to "find oneself" is ominous, and too often seems to mean time to find someone else. People can and do grow apart, to the point that a separation and new relationships may be the wisest decision. But to leave someone in this specific fashion, with lies and excuses and subterfuge ( now There's a word I haven't used lately !) in the cruellest and most hurtful way, and then to break up by phone, not bothering to have the decency to do it face to face, is sabby. You don't deserve the pain ; and digest this episode well. It doesn't mean there's anything at all wrong with you, but it does mean that she was by no means as perfect and angelic as you believed.
Hope it helped to vent some steam, and that you'll soon find someone more deserving of your love.
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