Our expert says:
You are describing a lazy bum who is using you, and you know it. Ignore his attempts to charm you back into that dud relationship. After reading your description, one has to wonder --- what on earth do you love about him ? Or are so you desperate to be in love, that it's your fantasies about what he MIGHT be that you love, rather than the grisly reality of what he is ? See a counsellor to work on your low self-esteem with CBT, and prepare for an independently happy life.
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