Our expert says:
You have expressed your feelings well. You have said that you are getting bored and that your relationship is being affected. This will happen when your needs are not being met. It is good that you are able to reach orgasm when you masturbate. Honesty is important in a relationship and you should not have to fake it to make your partner feel better. You need to communicate your feelings with your partner and explain in a gentle manner what feels good, that perhaps you need more time to reach orgasm, and that it is important for you. The needs of both partners in a relationship need to be met for it to last. If you need more help with this please contact the SASHA (South African Sexual Health Association) helpline Tel -0860 100 262 for referral.
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