Our expert says:
As people so often find, long-distance relationships are very hard to maintain, especially if you didn't know each other really well before parting. Its not a good sign that he seems to want to rush things, and is already over-controlling and needlessly jealous. This isn't likely to get better if you continue in a relationship with him.
It sounds as though he still has a great deal of emotional baggage left over from his previous relationship, and he's probably not yet ready to enter on a comfortable relationship with another woman.
Frankly, though you're a caring person, you're not a psychotherapist, and are not likely to be able to solve his problems for him - better to encourage him to see a counsellor on his own to work on these.
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