Our expert says:
As regards his access to his daughter, what really matters is what is best for her, and that is usually to encourage reasonable access. But go to the Maintenance Court and ensure that he pays enough regular maintenance, too, for the sake of the child. That doesn't need "a court battle" as the court is there to decide what the child needs, not to let him bother you. And if he calls about anything other than access to the child, end the call when i t starts to get personal, and also make it clear that access should be on a regular, routine and predictable basis, not just now and then when the fancy strikes him
DOn't allow him to flirt or toy with you --- he chose to cheat and leave you, and can't expect you to accomodate him when, perhps, the other relationship might not be working out perfectly for him.
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