Posted by: tayyy | 2009/01/08

he couldnt get it in

my boyfriend and i are both virgins. when we tried to have sex but he couldn' t seem to get it in... am i too tight? what should we do?

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Hi there is no such thing as too tight. But you might be tensing up and closing up the opening. You both need to relax and take it easy. With lots of lubrication and fingers (with short nails) you will find it easier to open up. Woman on top position also helps

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Posted by: Sex Pot | 2009/01/08

Hi there  have u tried it with u being on top? When you' re inexperienced the its sometimes difficult 2 get the angle right. With the woman on top the angle is also usually a bit more easy + maybee a bit more natural. Use plenty of lube on both of u + be patient. Good luck.

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Posted by: Sg | 2009/01/08

You are obviously still inexperienced in this matter.As you are a virgin your hymen needs to be broken.This can be a painful exercise and needs to be done with lubrication etc.You might want to even get your boyfriend use his finger.
It is unlikely that you are too " tight" ,just use lotsa lubrication and take things easy and relaxed.

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