Posted by: Anonymous | 2009/06/15


i' ve been married 4 2yrs &  have a beautiful 7mths baby girl &  i LOVE ma husb dearly,but i have this crush with one of his friends &  i' ve been having 4rom the 1st day i met him,they are so close,he satys in Polokwane &  we stay in Vaal, they attend school 2getha in Vaal so he comes 2 our house every three weeks &  sleep over for 3 to 4 days,we even have a room that we call it' s his. He has a staddy girlfriend &  we met once but we did' nt talk about our men.every time ma husb mentions his name ma heart beats so fast &  every time he comes to the house I PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE ME STRENGHT NOT TO SAY OR DO ANYTHING that will make him know how i feel as i know that this will kill ma marriage &  his friendship with ma husb,i get butterflies in ma stamach,i blush,so when he is in the house i try 2 minimise any contact or convasation with him,i even fantasize about him. What else can i do 2 supress this feeling i have????

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You know, surely, that nothing could hurt your husband more deply than you having any sort of affair, ESPECIALLY with his best friend. EVERYONE involved would be hurt. Whenever you start to fanasize about him, stop immediately and tell yourself this is a silly, school-girl crush and not something any wise maried woman would waste her time doing. Make sure the two of you are never alone together --- and maybe see a marriage counsellor together with your husband

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