Our expert says:
Marriage / relationship counselling really is a good idea where you have the sort of issues you describe, with bad conclusions from bad previous relationships dogging a current relationship. I'm surprised at how often people, unhappy in a relationship, don't pause to wonder if they and / or their partner might be doing something wrong which can be corrected, but regret that they didn't "play the field" earlier, as if that might have helped ( it doesnt).
Sending him off to play can't possibly improve your relationship. We're not talking about football here, but playing thagt is serious and involves emotions and unpredictable results.
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