Our expert says:
Sounds like he has given up all pretense at being a sensible and mature adult, and has chosen to become a slave to other members of his direct family. As you know, I can't tell you what to do. Marriage counselling could help, but it sounds as though he wouldn't agree to it, or would ned a large room, as he'd insist on taking his sisters, brother, counsins, aunties and everyone else to each session, too.
He really doesn't sound ready to be married, or even to be grown-up
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