Our expert says:
You're doing the right thing, to see a shrink, but I;m sorry to hear that this han;t produced results --- maybe another shrink could be more useful to you ? Ask your shrink to be clear about what aims he/she has, and when you should be able to expect to see definit results. Just mumbling on about things for months or years would get you nowhere. CBT oriented therapy would definitely help. It is aimed at exactly changing such negative associations and setting you free from them. You are NOT beyond help.
Persist. The aim isn't to require you to be secually active, but to make you free to be able to do so, freelly and with pleasure, when you wish to. It's about freedom, in the end.
EXCELLENT responses from all the other readers here --- well done, guys !
And mariage counselling for the pair of you could also be very useful.
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