Our expert says:
Well, maybe it seemed perfect, but that he lied to you about being maried is very far from perfection. EVen if it was true that they are separated and planning a divorce , that was no excuse for him deliberately misleading you. That's nobody's dream man. It wasn't wise for you to have taken no precautions to avoid pregnancy, either --- was that deliberate, perhaps ?
And now you find that his promises to marry you seem to be empty ? He's had all he wanted from you, and apparently strill has it, without needing to get married. It's not that he "can't commit" --- as usual, this actually means that he just doesn't want to commit.
And though I understand very much how you don't want people to judge you for having entered into this predictably unpleasant situation ( you were old enough to know this could happen ), it's not at all true to say that people shouldn't judge you --- they will, and there is no basis for arguing that nobody ought ever to "judge" anyoen else --- mankind has always done so, and always will do so. At least here on the forum you can, while protected by anonymiy, hear what others who actually know you may be saying to each other, and not to you
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