Our expert says:
I wish people wouldn't be encouraged to "forgive" unforgiveable behhaviour in others who don't repent or even recognize that they did wrong - it only encouages them to do worse. As your sory proves.
After what you describe, trying to be friends might not have been a great idea. Then sleeping together, and then basically resuming the earlier relationship as though nothing had gone wrong ?
Yes, you brought this on yourself, but now is the time to definitively move on and leave him behind in your dust - cut him from facebook and delete your links to his page. Don't call him or contact him at all, and ignore any attempts he might make to contact you. If you physically run into him again ( hopefully NOT while driving a vehicle ) just say with calm dignity that you found he was still lying to you and still committed to the other woman, and have decided you will have nothing more to do with him, and will leave him and her to try to be happy together.
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