Our expert says:
The problem with Truth's comments is that as this has always been your mother's position, there is no reason to expect i to change in weeks or months.
You need to gently but firmly tell her this is YOUR home, which YOU pay for, and you will date and entertain whoever you want to.
In the meantime, she can indeed must stay in her own room during such visits unless she can promise to behave politely and pleasantly.
And meanwhile, she should use this time when the family and community are mobilized in her support, to find some other, more traditional family to live with, where they will support her very old-fashioned ways.
Otherwise, you will become old, giving up your own pleasures in life, to serve her commandments. And don't accept her blackmail attempts to control you, either.
I agree with Liza here.
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