Our expert says:
Well, you're not going mad, even if at times it may feel like that. Sounds like you really need to see a good local counsellor to sort out more clearly what you actually want and how to get there from here. A good counsellor, especially of the CBT form, could improve your self-defence system against his crap. His swearing that he will change is totally meaningless, especially as h has so conspicuously failed to change. If he were sincere, he would be seeing a marriage counsellor with you and actively be trying to change
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