Our expert says:
If I dial the pizza delivery guy and accidentally dial the video store, THAT's a mistake. As you say, no mistake lasts 20 months. OK< it may be acurate if he means that he now regrets it and sees it as wrong ( not mistaken ). It would be wise for the pair of you to work together in marriage counselling, to see what, if anything, may be repairable, and at least to understand each other better and make a wiser and better informed decision about the future. And you probably deserve some individual counselling, of a CBT form, to repair your self-esteem. Now, this is where liing in the country has really severe limitations. Is there even some facility through your nearest church ? Otherwise, you might try Lifeline in the nearest city / town, but that's a poor second best to personal counselling. You are definitely NOT crazy, and to even hint at that, your husband is simply adding insult to injury. You are not being altogether unreasonable, but continuing to boil with resentment isn't useful for you, so it would be better to be helped to find better ways of copin
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