Our expert says:
See a marriage / relationship counsellor together, to smooth out your joint problem-solving and relationship skills. Don't assume that your marriage is somehow doomed to follow the pattern of any other marriage --- you can make it succeed if you both want that and gain the skills to make that happen.
And maybe scale down the marriage plans a little --- as a pal of mine is a wedding coordinator, I am bothered (( though it;s good for her business ) by how excessively and needlessly elaborate weddings have become, increasing the price and stress levels all round, for no genuine benefit to the participants. Relax and do only as much for the festivities as you will both enjoy
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