Our expert says:
What a pathetic prawn this other guy was ! he must have had terribly low self-esteem, to be so aware of the "status" of he girls he knew, and to run away from them if that status wasn't high enough to enhance his, and be drawn back if they seemed higher.
I guess I'd take a position midway between you two. There's no good reason for your wife to feel too sorry for a man who treated her so badly, who chose to become infected by what sounds likely to have ben large-scale promiscuity, and then to try to deliberately infect her and you --- that's effectively attempted murder.
It is very highly likely that a promiscuous man such as you describe, who died rapidly and young, DID die of AIDS. He ended as he deserved, and with the end he created for himself. Just don't let your entirely understandable anger tear you up or spoil your relationship with your wife. between you, you were both able to prevent him from more seriously damaging you while he lived --- don't give him the satisfaction of enabling him to cause more harm after his death. See him buried, physically --- and bury your anger and bitterness with him, going home without it.
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