Our expert says:
Whether relatives or not, to assume that you can visit someone else's home any time you want to, is rude and selfish. And a mother-in-law ought to be more tactful, and your husband ought to explain this to her. To visit EVERY holiday and opportunity is grossly unfair, among other reasons, because it prevents you from going away at those times, and forces you to pay to entertain her. Your husband is being unreasonable in not seeing that this is unreasonable. If you wouldnt allow his mother to ever visit, you would be unreasonable. To expect her to visit every chance she gets, is not reaSONABLE AT ALL.
And if they take over the whole house without thinking of you, that is unfair and rude again. Maybe you should arrange to visit your own family when ma-in-law is due to visit ---you get some peace and quiet at home, and he has to enjoy the privilege of caring for his mother. Lock away your valuables and fragile items, and leave them to quarrel among themselves. If ma has to do the cooking and cleaning, she may not enjoy the visit.
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