Our expert says:
Often we can indeed achieve worthwhile things which we dream of --- some of our dreams won't be possible because nopbody can achieve them ( I will never fly on my own steam ) ; some because we don't have the abilities or talent ( I will never play professional football ) ; and some because others might prevent us from succeeding --- for instance a very clannish, closed business full of plotting and favouring insiders, may just not be practical to break into. And it sounds as though your friends are concerned about that last type of barrier.
If indeed this is a nasty industry which would hurt you and make you unhappy --- would real friends encourage you to go ahead and get hurt ?
It sounds as though you are a bit muddled as you how to think about this. You worry that they may be jealous --- but if the job would be nasty, or if they feel you couldn't possibly succeed --- there'd be nothing for them to be jealous of. They'd only be jealous if they really thought you COULD succeed --- so that sort of jealousy would be a sort of backhanded compliment !
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