Our expert says:
His anger is reasonable and understandable. Apparently, she DID deceive him and waste his time and money. However, he does seem to have seriously over-reacted to whatever annoyed him about your reaction to these events - maybe he felt somehow that you were sympathizing with the addict, rather than with him ?
You say this isn't the first time he has cut you off in this way, so it may be a part of his unhelpful way of dealing with disappointment and depression.
Yes, don't accept his anger, or the implied invitation to take the blame for what the addict did. For right now, it seems wisest to leave him to cool off ( talking to him while he is in this sort of state is clearly not useful ), and if he later approaches you apologetically, that would be the better time at which to decide how to respond - whether to explain that these episodes are very hurtful for you, and you would rather end the friendship amicably, or to accept his apology and try again, or whatever. There's no need to feel guilty if you decide that you have had enough and will prefer to live without a relationship with him, from now on.
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